Sex

Sex for artists can be inspiring, frustrating, a distraction, an obsession, something that feeds creativity or something that creativity feeds. The posts below touch on sex and love and lust and their many facets and roles in a creative life.

Scale of Sexual Predation by Inga Muscio - Pyragraph

Scale of Sexual Predation

Inga Muscio

We are close to something truly sprawling and ugly, so the big monsters are inundating us with lesser demons. In the spirit of keeping our attention on what’s really behind that flash flood, I created this Scale of Sexual Predation.

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Dear Little Bobby - Pyragraph

Dear Little Bobby: Tired of Being Teased

Little Bobby Tucker

Nothing makes me temporarily forget about Donald Trump’s disgusting treatment of immigrants quite like a quick and amazing fuck. It does not mean that we are bad people because we stop calling our congressperson long enough to enjoy having sex with our partner.

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Dear Little Bobby: Frisky in Frisco

Little Bobby Tucker

For some people, some fantasies should remain fantasies. For others, I recommend living the fantasy out, but doing it safely and with wide open eyes and a wide open heart, knowing that we can never really know an experience until we know it.

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Dear Little Bobby: Sexy and Fed Up

Little Bobby Tucker

It’s gotten to the point that I don’t even want to have sex anymore. I try to avoid it because I do not want to get my hopes up again. He says it’s because when he was in the army he took steroids and then to stay hard he would take pills kinda like viagra.

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Dear Little Bobby: Sexual Shame

Little Bobby Tucker

The solution is not to get control—the solution is always to let go. Let go of expectations. Let go of misguided delusions of having any control over the world. We can only try to be educated, to be safe and most of all, to be loving.

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