Women’s Sports Don’t Need Saving
Anti-trans groups who claim they want to save women’s sports are all full of shit.
LGBTQ
What kind of impact does being queer have upon your creative work? In these posts, our bloggers share experiences and perspectives related to identifying as LGBTQ or non-genderconforming in a cisnormative world.
Chasing Rights, Missing Flights: Making Abortion Accessible Against All Odds
What it’s like to be a Patient Navigator for abortion services: “It’s post-Roe, 2022. I’m on a trip from Texas to New Mexico, accompanying 15 people seeking abortion, one a minor. The clinic forgets to tell us to buy her mom a ticket, and the two get separated at the airport. Mother sobbing, daughter stone-faced and angry. I’m exhausted.”
Not to Be Dramatic, But It’s Time to Save Democracy Now, Okay?
We’ve got to focus. We are at a point before the election where the actions of the next few weeks have the potential to impact our lives — and the lives of immigrants, children and the disenfranchised, as well as our allies and others around the world — for years to come.
Resource List: Mental and Financial Health During COVID-19
We thought it would be helpful to periodically summarize what’s out there to calm the storm of information that seems to be swirling around us. So here is a resource list focusing on mental health, wellness and financial assistance to help soften the impact of COVID on all our lives.
Pyragraph LIVE: John Fugelsang
John Fugelsang is in Albuquerque to perform “Unpresidented: The true story of a comedian trying to raise a toddler while his country was electing one” and we were lucky enough to get him into the Pyragraph LIVE studio (a.k.a. my office) to talk about comedy, politics, religion, and how he’s pulled all those elements and more into his unique creative career.
Dear Little Bobby: Too Slow, Manilow?
Our modern civil rights movement needs as many people as possible to be themselves and for us to work together for change. But people “being themselves” also means that they are allowed to not talk about their private life for as long as they do not want to talk about it, maybe even forever.
Dear Little Bobby: Devastated Soon-to-be-Ex of a Soon-to-be-Woman
You no longer have to be with this person who has clearly been struggling with who they are. I would recommend that you explore, discover and decide who YOU are. You are not just a mom, a wife or an ex-wife.
Surviving Trump
How do I explain the disenfranchisement of elderly black grandmothers to a White suburbanite from Anytown USA?
5 Ways Creatives Can Help Resist the New TrumpWorld Order
Creative folks have a special and incredibly important role in, and power to affect, social change. While the actual levers of political power may be in the wrong hands at the moment, artists and creatives have immense social and cultural power. Yes, this means you! YOU have power to reach hearts and minds, often in ways that politicians and campaigners cannot, and never will be able to.
Dear Little Bobby: Sexual Shame
The solution is not to get control—the solution is always to let go. Let go of expectations. Let go of misguided delusions of having any control over the world. We can only try to be educated, to be safe and most of all, to be loving.
Dear Little Bobby: Using Gaydar, and Disconnected on Stage
Sometimes when I am performing, I feel disconnected from the audience. Part of this is from looking out and seeing so many people looking at their phones.
Self-Employed Happy Hour Podcast: Roberto Appicciafoco, Founder of the Southwest Gay and Lesbian Film Festival
On the eve of the 13th annual SWGLFF, Roberto joins us in the Pyragraph Studio for our first Self-Employed Happy Hour of the Fall 2015 season!
I’m a Homo in TV Land
If you are a queerio, and you know you are being perceived as a queerio, you’re probably going to be cast as a queerio and continue to be cast as a queerio. Our society loves gender roles and stereotypes.
Transgender Band Name Blues
The most difficult aspect of coming out as transgender, and changing my name to fit my gender identity, has been that it also created a musical and professional crisis that I would have rather avoided.
Band of One
At some point my gender struggle became more important than being a musician. I needed to break up the band—this band of one that was fighting all the time.
Steven Seagal Called Me a Faggot and All I Got Was This Job on ‘Breaking Bad’
I started working on a little unknown TV show called “Breaking Bad” being shot in Albuquerque. The production designer told me we were about to “make history.” OK. I’m down.